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If You Work Really Hard and You’re Kind, Amazing Things Will Happen

It’s been 3 weeks since Conan’s farewell speech, and I haven’t been able to get this quote out of my head.

We hear so much in our culture today about how you have to work hard to be successful. Which is true. However, what usually goes unsaid is the implication that you must succeed at all costs. The end justifies the means. If you need to step on people to get ahead, then that’s just part of the game.

Conan is the first person in the spotlight I have heard in a long time defy that idea. Not only should you work hard, but you also need to treat people with dignity and respect. It sounds simple, but so many people in positions of power don’t hold this belief.

The means matter. How we live and how we treat people matters. Our fortunes will vary and we all will go through good times and tough times. The important thing is to stay true to our beliefs no matter what and to continually treat others with the dignity and respect they deserve.

2 Responses to “If You Work Really Hard and You’re Kind, Amazing Things Will Happen”

Well put, Chris. Unfortunately in today’s divisive political and dogmatic world, civility seems to have taken an extended (hopefully not permanent) vacation. In fact, civility itself is seen as a sign of weakness.

I’m not sure why or how this has happened, but it’s disappointing to see the resurgence of “ends-justify-the-means” mentality, regardless of who gets hurt or the long-term consequences.

I hope people like you can turn the tide.

Says Tom Waldinger at 8:49 pm on February 16th, 2010

Thanks for the comment Tom.

I think, sometimes, the people who have that ends-justify-the-means mentality are just the loudest ones. We think that they are successful because they’re on TV or in positions of power, but that’s not the kind of success that most of us want.

Says Chris Walbert at 6:23 pm on February 21st, 2010

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